Mastering Attitude for Success: The Key to Shifting Your Life and Work for the Better
Mastering the right attitude can make the difference between struggling and success. While a good mindset won't solve all of life's problems, it sure helps. Your attitude impacts your work and home life more than you may realize.
Here are 7 things you can do to build a more positive attitude and create better outcomes for yourself (and others). And some practical tips to mastering the point. Which of these will help to improve your attitude?
Create a Positive attitude
Creating a more positive attitude seems daunting, but it can be as simple as "fake it till you make it." That's right, simply deciding you have a positive attitude is a good start to making a difference in your mindset. 3 ways to get started:
Smile, smile on the outside, and you will start to smile on the inside.
Relax, feeling tense? Stress can kill your joy. If you cannot do anything about the situation at this moment, then try to let it go.
Stay positive by focusing on opportunities instead of obstacles. You can cultivate a growth mindset and learn from your experiences.
Build your Confidence
Others are also more likely to believe in you as well. Confidence is something you can feel and project even when you don't have all the facts or training you may need. While you want to be careful about being cocky or acting like you know something when you don't. Two ways to build your confidence
Learn how to learn. Each of us has a style of learning that meets our needs best. Find out more about learning styles here.
Focus on followthrough - which brings us to point 3, so read on.
Harness the Power of Proactivity
Being proactive means taking the initiative and controlling your success. By actively seeking opportunities and being prepared for challenges, you can increase your chances of achieving your goals. Say yes to opportunities and be ready to learn new skills each and every day. This will help you continuously unlock your skills and show your employeer and colleagues the kind of person you are. Here are three steps to harnessing your proactivity:
Focus on outcomes, not tasks.
Take responsibility for your actions and decisions.
Manage your energy, not your time. Learn more about that here.
Show your Work Ethic
The right attitude, confidence in yourself, proactivity, and a strong work ethic is a receipt for success in life. These three life capabilities build on each other to make you a strong and successful person.
Be dependable, say what you will do, and do what you say.
Learn on the job; continuous learning helps you work smarter.
Be willing to work hard. "When the going gets tough, the tough get going ." This saying shows that those who put in the extra effort when needed shows others you mean business.
Release your Resilience
Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and failures. And it separates those that try from those that persevere—persistence is doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success. So those that understand how to release their resilience learn to overcome failures and push forward. What are ways to prepare and overcome setbacks:
Build your coping skills—tactics to help you deal with problems.
Build your problem-solving skills. Project management focuses on the steps to achieve outcomes. Learn more about task planning and get a free downloadable process here.
Take a Walk
Nature, being in trees or at least outdoors, is a great tonic to help you think more clearly and understand when bad things happen - "this too shall pass" is true for all but the worst situations. Three things everyone can do to find their "happy place."
Make a home garden, a place you can go to find peace.
Find a regular walking route to reinvigorate your energy levels.
Focus on creating. It is a way to put things into perspective.
Be Kind to Yourself
If you are sick, tired, hungry, or dehydrated. Your body and brain will be struggling. Your brain cannot stay positive if it is in emergency mode. So take care of yourself. And if you are feeling low or ill, take a time out.
Do these things to take care of the only thing you own - your body.
Sleep is a proven medicine to solve or address problems.
Don't solve difficult problems when sick.
Give yourself grace. When others are not kind to you, be kind to yourself.
Adopting a positive and proactive approach to life can help you cultivate a growth mindset, take control of your success, and develop the confidence, resilience, and work ethic needed to achieve your goals. Building a proactive attitude is a step to success that we can take to improve our lives. And building your proactive attitude is one of the most proactive things you can do for yourself. So work on these seven points and practical steps to start a better life at work and home.
Do you have a way of addressing your positive attitude? Did I miss something? Please let me know in the comments below.